He can be lost when he feels preoccupied, maybe with all the current buzz of his world or simply by his daily rumblings. Or when some random guy he met on his PE class won't take the risk to be with him, thus feeling ruined, and lost. Or put simply, the most common use of the word: he had him in his hands and the next day gone.
I may be lost. I am not sure. But let this blog be an avenue towards redemption.